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Running…to Remember Vlady

by LifeWithLisaYogini, posted in Healthy Lifestyle

By Lisa Calice

This is a photo I took while running the Brooksie Way Half Marathon

Thinking back to my childhood, running wasn’t a specific activity, it was a natural state of being. I’d like to think running was for the sheer joy of doing it, and imagine my little girl self taking off just to see how fast my legs could carry me, almost like flying. As I grew older, running took its place in my life as training for my chosen sports. We had to run for basketball, soccer, softball and even volleyball. Whenever training for a new season began, it would be challenging, but after a few weeks of doing it, running always became effortless.

Over the many years of running, I noticed that regular practice seemed to reap amazing benefits, confidence and I could actually feel my legs and my lungs getting stronger as it got easier and I felt faster and lighter. This is one truth that never changed.

Finally, when I was in my 30’s, the day came that I couldn’t run. I tore my ACL and underwent surgery. Life changed and I thought it might be permanent. Even walking was a challenge and on more days than I wish to admit, I wanted to give up. I went to physical therapy twice a week and my kids came with me. My son, Vlady, took a keen interest in my recovery. He held the clipboard while I did my exercises and made sure I completed them. When I was getting “stretched” by the physical therapist, he coached her to touch my heel to my buttocks. As I lay there feeling like my knee would disintegrate, I wanted to quit. Many, many years later, I am grateful for his tenacity. Other patients we ran into each week, called Vlady my “caddy” and asked where they could get one! At home I just wanted to flop onto the sofa and feel sorry for myself. Vlady would set a chair out on the driveway and have me “shoot hoops” with him. He never let me give up and so I never did. I’m forever grateful for his encouragement. Eventually I got back to running a few miles per week, just like I had before I tore my ACL. I was slow and careful not to re-injure myself, but at least I had the ability to run again.

Many years later, my daughter Lina asked me to run the Brooksie Way Half Marathon with her. I had zero training to do such a long race. I used to do the YMCA Lazyman Triathlon each year because it always coincided with my birthday and for me it was the start of a new year. Lina promised to motivate me each week and she did. We had little time to train before the race but somehow we did it. On the morning of the race, she was in a car accident. She told me to run without her. She did try to do the race when she got there, she had lost her socks in the accident so she was not able to finish due to blisters. She gave so much encouragement to me for which I will also be forever grateful. I completed the race without injury or pain in my knee of any kind. From then on her gift to me was that the Brooksie Way became a tradition. It gave me confidence that I could overcome adversity and accomplish my goals. It helped me to not give up.

Running has continued to thread its way through my life.i began to enjoy doing races with either fun themes, good causes, or both. It always gives me a sense of accomplishment when I meet my goals and complete a race. It can help bring awareness to something I believe in. Running also helps me to honor the gifts my children Lina and Vlady gave to me when they encouraged me and stayed at my side during my difficulties. I think of them and thank them each time that I run.

I was not at all surprised to discover that Vlady encouraged others in their goals as well. His good friend Zachary contacted me recently and told me he was doing a 50K at the Traverse City Trail Running Festival in April. He asked me if I wanted to join in or be there to cheer him on because he dedicating his efforts in memory of Vlady. I decided to join him in a 10K. We also have my sister, Anne, doing a 10K in his memory.

Our entire family and all of his friends miss Vlady every day. This April will mark an entire year without him. We are dedicating our training, our miles run in all kinds of weather, and our race day performance on April 23rd, to Vlady’s memory, with gratitude for having had him in our lives and to encourage ourselves and those who are struggling with his loss, to keep going. On many days when I don’t want to run, I feel like he is with me telling me not to give up. My running has given my life a daily purpose. I hope we can also bring some awareness to mental health struggles that many face, and bring attention to some causes I know Vlady would have supported had he been here with us today. For me I’m hoping to recapture some of that childhood feeling of “running for the sheer joy of it.” Please follow my posts and blog entries in the days ahead as I attempt to do just that. I appreciate any and all encouragement on this journey.

You can support our upcoming runs by supporting these causes:

Stop Soldier Suicide this organization helps veterans and active duty military. They provide consistent, safe, confidential care that saves lives. You can read more or donate on this link or on my Facebook fundraiser. You can also join my training team: Team Vlady and help me do 2000 burpees in the month of April!

UCARE, Inc. (Ukrainian Children’s Aid and Relief Effort) is a non-profit 501(c)(3) Organization whose focus is the children of Ukraine, primarily those living in orphanages and internaty (government run orphanage-schools). I know that Vlady would have appreciated our support as this was his life before he joined our family. Currently the need is great in Ukraine with the Russian attacks and these kids need our help! You can donate to this cause in memory of Vlady on this website.

If you would like to join us in Traverse City on April 23, here is more information. We welcome participants and we also welcome fans to cheer us on!

Blessings in the Unexpected

by LifeWithLisaYogini, posted in Healthy Lifestyle

By Lisa Calice

“If you so choose, even the unexpected setbacks can bring new and positive possibilities. If you so choose, you can find value and fulfillment in every circumstance.”

— Ralph Marston

I awoke this morning to the moon shining brightly in the morning sky. Still too sleepy to form any expectations of the day, I was taking in my surroundings without judgement. And what a delight to see the nighttime moon bright and shining in the deep blues and pinks and purples of the morning. If I wouldn’t have bent down to pet my dogs, I may not have noticed the view of the moon juxtaposed to my hanging pot of flowers; the only ones that have survived the hot, dry summer we are experiencing. My view of life this morning was one of joyful happenstance.

It reminded me that prior to March of this year, I may not have been where I was, experiencing the beauty of a sleepy, unplanned view of the sky from my own backyard. I would have been too busy, racing from commitment to commitment. And while I’ve so often grieved over the life I’ve lost forever, I’ve had some beautiful moments of feeling inexplicably alive.

Life in the pandemic is as terrible as it is beautiful. The moments where I can escape the rat race, the fear, the masks and the lost jobs and opportunities have been some of the most inspiring I can remember. I was truly present this morning with nature; in my backyard, in my breath, and with my dogs. We were all connected as one, and the morning and it’s possibilities seemed as endless as the sapphire blue of the sky. I’ve always loved mornings and this morning that love made my heart so full. My pets and I were in harmony and the morning stood completely still. I felt myself breathe.

These are those moments where I know that the tragic setbacks and losses of the pandemic and the choices being made that are out of my control, can one day lead to something better. In my heart I have to believe this. I feel more inspired, energized, creative, compassionate, patriotic. I want to transform my world and I want to transform the whole world for the better. One beautiful moment, one breath, one person can make one small difference.

For the first time in most of my adult life, I have been dragged, at first kicking and screaming into a life I didn’t expect. It happened as suddenly and unexpectedly as if I had painstakingly created one of those intricately colored sand mandalas and someone came along with a large broom and swept it all away. There’s a pile of dirt that remains of my past, and that’s about it.

Gradually at first, there was an awakening to beauty that was equally unexpected. It was a little like rubbing the sleep out of my eyes this morning. Instead of focusing on who and what are never coming back, my eyes opened to what is here. Maybe I was too busy rushing around building my sand mandala to notice it.

As a result, the sky has opened up. There are new relationships to be had; a new career, new friends, renewed friends, new experiences, a heightened creativity. I am moving into the realm of the present, of acceptance. Maybe the difficulties will suck but will actually make me better. The things I used to be afraid of hardly seem scary any longer. How can I; a living, breathing, creative human being; wake up to the moon in summer sky and feel afraid? Many moons have arisen and set over many setbacks that have come and gone, and the world is still here. I am still here. Life passes so quickly. Maybe now I won’t miss it completely. Right here, in this moment, I am blessed.

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Making Our Own Magic

by LifeWithLisaYogini, posted in Healthy Lifestyle
Make your own magic!

Everywhere I look these days, I see challenges. It’s easy to feel like I am climbing never-ending hills. It can be tempting to lose hope. Some days, it would be pretty easy to succumb to the challenges. I know I need to seek a balanced view, and go find moments where I believe something good will ultimately come. Or even that it’s all good. I want to find a way to live the best life I possibly can. No matter how small it is, I have become determined to make something magical happen.

Magic doesn’t have to be a major miracle; rather it is the little every day triumphs, and trying to enjoy every moment that I am here. I strive to appreciate the every day tasks and to do them the best that I can. I want to feel grateful rather than overwhelmed. I need to make some magic happen so that I can see challenges as opportunities. When I wash my dishes, instead of feeling like it’s a chore, I try to think, “thank God I have dishes to wash!” I want to make my own magic with the challenges, big and small, that I face each day.

One of my favorite quotes describes my thoughts best:

“Feelings, whether of compassion or irritation, should be welcomed, recognized, and treated on an absolutely equal basis; because both are ourselves. The tangerine I am eating is me. The mustard greens I am planting are me. I plant with all my heart and mind. I clean this teapot with the kind of attention I would have were I giving the baby Buddha or Jesus a bath. Nothing should be treated more carefully than anything else. In mindfulness, compassion, irritation, mustard green plant, and teapot are all sacred.”

Thich Nhat Hanh, The Miracle of Mindfulness: An Introduction to the Practice of MeditationTags: mindfulness, miracle, of

Today I went to visit my mom and dad. I could see right away that without gratitude, I was sunk. My mom was sleeping sitting on the sofa when I arrived and didn’t want to acknowledge my presence. Eventually she came around a bit, but she sure didn’t make it easy!

I had so many wonderful and easy years with my mom, that honestly it makes it that much easier for me on the challenging days. I know how lucky I’ve been and how much my mom has given to me. I can’t feel troubled providing anything I can for such a wonderful woman. Of course the challenge here is, she doesn’t remember who I am or how much I appreciate her. She gets frustrated and impatient so I need to wave my magic wand and be patient for both of us. I am learning to celebrate the teeny, tiny victories in a sea of disappointments.

Magical assistant!

This was one of those days where nothing I did seems to work. On those days I just try something else, or I keep trying. Today it was the paint by sticker books that broke the ice. I asked my mom if she wanted to make some pictures and she picked a book up right away. That’s when I saw the Make Your Own Magic picture. I knew right then that things would be ok. Whenever we are working on our pictures we are in unison; working toward a common goal. It keeps our minds focused and we can interact positively. I can feel my patience and compassion filling my heart.

I came up with this idea one day when I saw that my mom still had the capability to color perfectly in the lines, just like she always had, but that she no longer had the patience to do so. Color by sticker was the perfect option for her. She needs some assistance doing it, but it is just challenging enough without being impossible and she is so proud of the results. Since then, my sister has become the master at locating and obtaining new paint by sticker books that keep things interesting and fun.

If you have a Senior in your life, I highly recommend these! Here is a link to one of my favorites:

https://books.google.com/books/about/Paint_by_Sticker_Dogs.html?id=wfGoDwAAQBAJ&printsec=frontcover&source=kp_read_button

When we worked on the outer space sticker design, I had fun telling my mom the names of the items in the pictures, such as “The Big Dipper,” a “Shooting Star,” and “Saturn.” It reminded me of how patiently she used to read me my favorite book as a kid, “A Book of Planets for You.” Isthave this book. Although that

It brought me so much joy creating this picture with her, and I remembered our time spent with the planet book well enough for the both of us. In the scheme of things, it was such a small act, but truly a connection only my mother and I share, because that book was MY book ( I am sure I did not share it with my siblings, and that was back in the day when Pluto was still a still a planet)!

As I write this, I am thinking of all the elderly who are alone and isolated right now, and I’m working to find a way to help some of them. I hope we all find a way to reach out to make our seniors feel loved and appreciated. They may not all remember us, but we can all remember them! Let’s make our own magic happen! I love you mom! You are my inspiration! You make me a better me! You made my life magical.

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The Joy of Community…Enhancing Our Quality of Life Through Community Yoga Classes

by LifeWithLisaYogini, posted in Auburn Hills Community Center, Community Yoga, Healthy Lifestyle, Parks and Recreation, wellness, yoga

My role as a yoga teacher, is to shine a light where it is needed, and to help to unveil the truth. We practice this mindfulness on our yoga mats, and hopefully it spills over into our daily lives. Today, I am writing this in order to shine a light on your local Auburn Hills Community Center; to reveal one of our community’s hidden gems: Community Yoga. Our yoga class is so much more than just an exercise or a yoga class; it is an integral piece of the Auburn Hills Parks and Recreation mission:

“Our mission is to improve the quality of life in Auburn Hills by providing quality parks and recreation opportunities with a variety of year-round programs, special events and facilities for people of all ages and abilities.”

Our yoga classes embrace this mission. Our small, but growing yoga community exists to improve the quality of your life. This healthy, life-enhancing opportunity is available to all, whatever your age or ability. We are friendly and fun! Our classes are offered year-round. All you have to do is show up to benefit!

As a teacher who has taught in many settings, including studios; if I am completely honest, I have to say that teaching a Community Center yoga class is the most rewarding. I get to meet the nicest people that I may not have otherwise met; it’s like teaching a roomful of my next-door neighbors. The Community Center staff are neighborly too; and will do absolutely anything to help me or my students.

The one and only downside of Community Yoga is the eye rolls I sometimes get when a yoga person asks me where I teach, and I inform them that I am a Community Center yoga teacher. I know my students have probably encountered the same misconceptions, as if a Community Center teacher or the class, is somehow something “less”. I am hoping this article will help to dispel this myth.

True, my Community Center yoga room is not specifically designed for yoga; it doesn’t have bamboo floors, yoga-themed decor, nor is it filled with incense. We use a multi-purpose room, that is clean, spacious and beautiful. Come and see it for yourself! It is an awesome space. For that magical hour, I transform it into a yoga paradise, complete with yoga props, candles, music and singing bowls.

Our yoga students may not walk in sporting the latest in yoga fashion; they more likely dress in comfortable sweats, leggings, pants or shorts. We like to be comfortable!

Our friendly class has a nice mix of ages and backgrounds. I would love to see our class become even more reflective of our very diverse community. All are seeking the same restorative, relaxing, health-enhancing, self-care experience as any other yoga student anywhere. I make sure that I provide that experience! To receive this “yoga magic”, all you need to do is to show up and participate, according to your abilities. Everyone is truly welcomed. We would love to have you here with us!

If you are apprehensive about trying a Yoga class, you may discover the Community Center classes can be less intimidating than studio classes. You can always drop in or even ask to observe a class before signing up. Our class fees are very reasonable. There’s no pressure to purchase an expensive package and no membership needed. Whether or not you are a resident of Auburn Hills, you are welcome to take a class. Our yoga class fee structure is truly a “perk” of residing in Auburn Hills. Non-residents pay a little bit more to take our classes. Registration is also easy! You can register in person at the front desk at the Community Center, or online at the Auburn Hills website: http://auburnhills.org/departments/parks_and_recreation/recreational_programs/index.php

If cost is an issue, please do contact the Auburn Hills Parks and Recreation Department, to inquire whether there are currently any scholarship opportunities available.

Our Community Center also offers several opportunities each year to participate in free pop-up classes and events where we collect donations to benefit more needy members of our community. We often collect books for Rogers Elementary School and we collect hats, gloves and scarves for those who need warmth in the winter.

Whether you are new to yoga or a seasoned yogi; we welcome you to join us! Our Fall 2 session begins the week of November 4th. So…what are you waiting for?!

In selecting a yoga teacher, your Auburn Hills Parks and Recreation department has your back. They verify our experience, certifications, licensing and do a thorough background check. However, this is only one part of it. It is important to understand what kind of yoga class your prospective teacher offers and how much training and teaching experience your teacher has. Personal referrals are also quite helpful, so be sure to ask if you can speak to someone who has taken one of our classes!

Yoga Alliance is yet another resource. It is a national, professional registry where you can view information and credentials regarding your prospective teachers. Your yoga teacher should have a Yoga Certification, and should also be registered with Yoga Alliance; as this also documents teaching and training experience. There are yoga certifications out there where a teacher can get certified in a weekend course, so not all yoga certifications are created equal or provide the same level of training.

Here is the Yoga Alliance link to Find A Teacher : https://www.yogaalliance.org/Directory?Type=Teacher

If you search for me, Lisa Calice, it will provide my certification level and Yoga Alliance designation:

E-RYT® 200, YACEP® First Registered – June 2006

This means I am a Yoga Teacher with a 200 hour certification and beyond that, I have obtained my Experienced Yoga Teacher designation, and am a Yoga Alliance Continuing Education Provider. I have well over 2,000 hours of teaching experience. I teach Eischens Yoga and YogaMedics Yoga. Both are alignment based, and tend to be slower moving, gentle and yet challenging. I recently attended another 200 hour certification course with YogaMedics, allowing me to obtain more skills in working with and modifying for injuries or illness. Other related skills and training are: Silver Sneakers Yoga Certification, Arthritis Foundation Walk With Ease Certification and Chair Yoga Training.

You may wonder, what is a typical class like? We typically begin and end in a supported restorative pose. This is usually accomplished in a reclining pose, but can easily be adapted into a seated pose. We practice a series of poses that include some supine (on your back), prone (on your stomach or hands and knees), standing and seated. Any of these options can be easily be modified to accommodate your needs. If you come to a class, you will see students doing just that!

It’s all about community! You can support our mission by joining us. Your participation in our class offerings and willingness to “shop local” also helps to support the livelihood of your friends and neighbors who work for the Auburn Hills Parks and Recreation Department, so that we can continue to offer more fantastic life-enhancing services! Together we can make our community an even more amazing place to live and work!

Sincerely,

Lisa Calice E-RYT 200